How do you get rid of that pesky bully?
There are several ways to defend your self and stop all that harassment. I believe the best way to help deal with a bully is tell someone. It could be a friend, a parent, a sibling, even a teacher. Just make sure to tell someone what is going on. If you keep it to your self your bully problem will never go away. If this bully is really bothering you and you don't know how to get rid of him, talk to someone get ideas, get support!
Another positive non-violent way to get rid of a bully is ignore them, and walk away. As i said in one of my earlier posts. The bully fiends of your hurt emotions. Don't give them that satisfaction. If bullies realize that they aren't upsetting you they will usually stop. Sometimes though bullies do get clever and try different methods of harassment. Stay strong! Keep walking away and keep ignoring them, at this point bullies will get bored.
Confidence is key. A bully aims his harassment at those who are insecure and self-conscious. They are the easiest targets and the most emotionally unstable. Like a lion hunting a wounded zebra, an easy kill!. Stay confident, be proud of yourself at all times and more times than not the bully will find it hard to make fun of you. If you are still being harassed be sure to stand up for yourself and make sure that bully doesn't do it again.
Confidence definitely is key, and anytime you lower your head for someone, they will feel that they are better than you. No matter how big a bully is, there is only so much he can do. He's not going to kill you, and words don't injure you as long as you don't give them meaning. Great post!
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