Just a thought..

Bullies attack others directly.  They tell you what they think of you directly to your face. They are honest and open about what their views, even though they are hurtful.  Now think...Are people that make fun of you behind your back worse than bullies? Is anyone that harasses someone else whether it is directly to them or behind their backs considered a bully? So are bullies essentially better people than ones who judge you behind your back?